True confidence stems from having nothing to prove and no one to impress.


We’ve all had moments in life when we are confident, when life flows exactly the way we want it to. The problem is that it seems to be out of our hands, that fortune and fate (and alcohol) happened to be smiling upon us. But it has got nothing to do with fortune and fate (and alcohol). You made it happen. No one else. It is just a matter of tapping into that source, as much you can.

And no, the source is not the sauce. It is you.

Confidence isn’t something that you can get. It is a process of letting go of stuff. Letting go of all the fears, doubts and insecurities that prevent you from being confident.


If you have enough purpose and belief in something, you will have complete confidence in yourself. If you know exactly what you are doing and exactly where you are going, there will be no doubt, no fear and no uncertainty. So first things first, acquire the necessary vision and live your truth.

© Phillip A. Klein March 2008

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